Trust issues are pushing people into relationships that include less attachments. Less attachments shield people from being hurt. Open relationships are one way to shield individuals from potential heartbreak while allowing them to explore and fullfill desires and needs with other partners.
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Open relationships are very common in US and North Europe nowadays. In an open relationship, partners allowed to date and hook up with other people. This is not ‘cheating’ but tolerated. To be in an open relationship two of the participants agree that they are in.
Why people chose that kind of relationship?
There is not a spesific answer due to the fact that there can be a lot different reasons, situations and circumstances. First of all, one can have a long distance realtionship that pushes him into an open relationship. A person can love someone without wanting to break up with their distance lover but fulfill his or her sexual wants with others. In this kind of open relationship, the long distance relationship is called the primary relationship, while the others involved are only seen as temporary lovers.
Once bitten twice shy
In addition, a person can be hurt so deeply from prior relationships that the damage keeps them from wanting a serious relationship. Everyone gives at least once in their lives the desicions after heart damages, ‘i won’t love anyone again’ . Some people are unable to get rid of the hurt that love causes so easily. Those people can choose that kind of relationships.
Besides them all, the one can just looking for different experiences without letting go of his or her primary relationship.
Conservative people who disagree with open relationship idea is stick to long lasting relationships. To them, if you really love someone you cannot touch or even look to any other person. Not just for being loyal but also you didn’t want to. If that idea is far away from you,they say, you really didn’t in love.
If you and your partner is alright with being in an open relationship, there is not a lot to say but you should consider that those relationships not everyone’s cup of tea. Bewaring of hurt can cause more hurt. When you fall in love with your open-relationship-partner you cannot avoid the sentinment of jealousy and jealousy can turn your life into hell. Your relationship may end up with tears and heart damage.
Love doesn’t hurt but people does, so let the love be with you in every stage of your lives. More you guard yourself more you will be away from happiness. As we all agree ‘the greatest thing you'll ever learn is just to love and be loved in return’…
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